Commitment?

When did commitment become a four-letter word?  More and more people are unwilling to commit to anything.  Why? Distractions We have so many options available that it is hard to make choices.  Think of internet search engines – you type in a word and...

The Discipline of Commitment

For many people commitment has become something negative – a four-letter word.  Each day we are faced with decisions and opportunities.  Avoiding commitment is not possible.  Commitment takes discipline.  How can you discipline yourself to commit?...

Single, but I’m not alone and I am loved

I’m going to take a risk and talk about a subject among singles that I would venture to say that most of us don’t really care to admit, much less talk about.  It’s the current reality that we are still single.  There, I said it.  I dared to say...

Sex Object or Love Object?

Several years ago I was meeting with a young woman in her early twenties.  She had come to see me because of her battle with sexual addiction. Her life had spiraled out of control and she couldn’t seem to figure out why she “attracted” so many...

Do You Wanna Be Eye Candy?

You don’t have to be a golfer to know who Tiger Woods is.  And you probably don’t need to be an avid tennis player to know who Venus and Serena Williams are.  Two amazing, professional tennis phenoms.   In early June at the French Open, Venus...

The Pain of Grief – Reactions and feelings

Grief is all encompassing. It affects every aspect of our being. It takes people by surprise. Until you have experienced it, many do not know the impact that it has on a life. Often, one may experience the very symptoms that their loved one was experiencing before...