Losing Your Song

Beside the rivers of Babylon, We sat down and wept as we thought of Jerusalem We put away our lyres, hanging them on the branches of the willow trees. (Psalm 137:1-2)   I’ve been kind of obsessed with the story of the Jewish exile lately.  (Check out 2...

The Foundation of Character – Trust

Values are important; they are the heart-springs that give strength and quality to our choices and behavior. Biographies of leaders often discuss the values, character, and capabilities that honed their leadership into influencing and investing into others’ lives. It...

Fear or Faith?

When a difficult situation, a giant, is in front of you, there are two ways to face it.  You can be filled with fear and try to run.  Which usually gets you nowhere and in the end makes the situation harder.  Or, you can attack the giant with...

A Friend in Need is a Friend Indeed!

I have been doing a lot of thinking about friendship lately.  As a therapist, people come into my office with a variety of issues.  One of the questions that I ask at the very first meeting is about their “support system.”  It is important to find out...

Breaking the International Language Barrier

I have found that when I travel to a foreign country there are a few key words that are good to know.  “Hello, good-bye, please, thank you, and do you speak English” to name a few.  And, the most important phrase of all, “where is the bathroom?” Before...